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Emotional Balance Sheet with Paul Fenner

Apr 9, 2026

You made the plan. You ran the numbers. You did everything right. So why does it feel like you're one unexpected expense away from starting over?

This week, I am focusing on what happens when the plan stops working, and why that might not be the disaster you think it is.

I share a story about a family whose perfect...


Apr 2, 2026

What happens when the opportunities we give our kids become the pressure we put on ourselves?

Dr. Jennifer Dragonette, our resident therapist expert, is back with us to dig into the gap between what we want for our families and what our families actually want. It started with a cruise my triplets didn't enjoy, a...


Mar 26, 2026

What happens when you're doing everything right on paper but still feel one car repair away from a financial meltdown? Or when you're fully present with your kids today but have no idea how you'll pay for college in five years?

Most families I work with fall into one of these two camps, and both are fragile in...


Mar 19, 2026

I'm wrestling with a question that's been on my mind lately: Have we given money a job it simply can't do?

There is a complicated relationship between money and our emotions, and how we sometimes hope numbers and bank balances will take away our fear or anxiety, even though those are emotions, not equations.

Inspired...


Mar 12, 2026

You're earning more than ever, but do you actually control your time? Most families discover that financial success came at a cost they didn't expect to pay.

In this episode, I explore the real dividend money provides: not fancy stuff, but time autonomy. I share the pattern I see in families who've achieved financial...